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particle - anyone know how he is doing?

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 Hippo16 (original poster member #52440) posted at 5:30 AM on Friday, October 17th, 2025

I remember he is a UFC participant - yet - the crap his wife pulled had beat him down.

Last I know of him (posting) - 3 years on - not so good.


Thinking maybe someone who has PM with him knows and can share.


I am hoping he finds a way to move on from all the hurt he has suffered.

There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."

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DRSOOLERS ( member #85508) posted at 9:14 AM on Friday, October 17th, 2025

I don't but off the back have this has spent some time catching up on the threads, my main takeaway is it really reinforces my belief in the absolute need for consequences after infidelity.

First, let's address the sheer insanity of having an affair with a former UFC fighter's wife. That man was incredibly lucky to walk away unscathed. Having known fighters, I can confidently say the vast majority of them would face legal trouble or worse if they ever found out who the guy was. He was playing with fire, and it's a miracle his house didn't burn down.

As for why the he wasn't happy in the relationship years later, the answer is clear: particle failed to enforce palpable outcomes.
If a person is willing to cheat, lie and manipulate for a year plus - I simply will never believe upon D-day that any high percent of people will immediately grow a conscience and be the perfect wife. I am aware some do... but I'm convinced these are exceptions not the rule. If anything all these edge cases do is merely muddy the water.

Looking over the chains, he likely followed the "correct playbook" initially but then defaulted to rug-sweeping. After all, when he caught her, the consequence was a single night at a 'friend's' house. The core issues were never properly addressed. I see many other users on both chains warned of this.

Honestly, this is typical. Based on reading this forum, the number of people who genuinely reconcile after an affair versus those who just rug-sweep and stay together is staggeringly low.

The pattern is obvious. Some people melt the moment they see tears. I will never understand how someone who was deceived for a year can suddenly trust their perception of "true" remorse just because their partner is crying. You weren't perceptive enough to catch the affair partner meeting up for a year, but now you see their "true" heart? Nonsense.

Dr. Soolers - As recovered as I can be

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Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 5:04 PM on Friday, October 17th, 2025

That's fascinating. I don't do sports at all, except for MMA. That's the only sport that's ever hooked me. Needless to say, I'm very familiar with the UFC roster. Not that I'd want to know who particle is, I respect the anonymity of this site, but I have a great deal of respect for MMA fighters, and they'd be the last person I'd cross. AP is lucky he still has all of his limbs...

Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?

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